When the moment arises that we realize we can not have what we want, or who we want. When the moment arises that we must accept what is… as it is this way for one reason one way or another, however the reasons are understandable. How does one live out their lives when all they want to do is live life with that one person as one? How does one settle on being in a place, other than the place that they desire to be most? Is this called OBSESSION? Are you now obsessed with the one person that you can not seem to have? Are you now obsessed with the one thing you can not have at your reach? Are you now obsessed with being in a place that you can not be? What if you were to have this person, thing, or be in that certain desired place…would you still want it after having it, or is it all about the excitement of not having these such things that makes you so obsessed with them? How do we know the difference…if it’s obsession or not? Is being obsessed a bad thing? Or is being obsessed okay, as long as you accept the facts as they are facts? How do we know that we would be happy if we did have who we wanted, and what we wanted… as well as being in the place that we desired to be? What makes us so sure about this wanting and needing…this obsession with the unreachable, and the untouchable? What makes us so sure that this obsession is not just an excitement within? Who’s to say that once we have what we want…that we won’t want it anymore? There are no guarantees…are there? Maybe it’s just a better judgment to accept what is…as it is, and with whom it’s with? Perhaps with divine time and ACCEPTANCE…all will be as we desire it to be, and things will be as they should be as they are inside of our minds? Perhaps with a bit of patience…the things we want and what we obsess over will be ours? Perhaps what and who we want will never be? As long as we can accept the here and now as it is…what will be will be, when the time is right.
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Danielle Gianni Corrick